I hate it when people tell you to “remember how fortunate you are”. Comparing yourself to the rest of the world will never get you anywhere. Just because you have more food, or water, or money, than anyone else- does not warrant you against sadness, depression, or anger. Your life, your struggles are ALL you know, and you have every right to feel pain for yourself. So don’t tell me that I shouldn’t complain or be sad, because my problems are bigger to me than anyone else’s, and that’s the way you get through life.
You can be generous to others, but first you must be generous to yourself.